Friday 12 September 2014

     
Really this just cracked me up and tot I should share...Well I apologize for my absence in d past months,i've been tied up with school stuff,business and so on .As we all know this money has to be made directly or indirectly..LOL...well I'm back and better...watch out!!

Wednesday 7 May 2014

WHO IS FOOLING WHO???

234 girls are missing and 234 is Nigeria's country code...is there sum coincidence???Ihave been pondering over this kidnap situation and something dont add up hence these questions. The students are said to be SSS3 student writing physics examination.

QUESTIONS: 1. Why are their names not yet published by the school, state government and WAEC?

2.Why are their pictures not over the news media?

3. How come all 234 students are in SSS3 and all came to write physics examination when the total number of students in the whole school are around 1200?

4. It was announced that the Borno states govt gave N1m each to parents of the missing girls. If thats true.

QUESTIONS: 1.Why was this money given to these parents, was it as compensation for the kidnaps or compensation for their deaths?

2. On Tuesday 29th April 2014, the senator from Borno said in the senate that the girls had been taken out of the country to Chad, Niger and Cameroon and married off to their adoptors.

QUESTIONS: How come these senators know so much, who are their informants? Why is the wife of the state governor organising women to pressure FG in Abuja after the National Security Council has ordered the armed forces to use all state resources to secure the release of the adopted Girls.

I just wonder how 200 girls can be kidnapped at once. How come we havent seen those girls who they said have escaped on tv? If the Ss3 student aren't up to 120 in a school of 1200, how is it possible 234 girls are missing? Where are the school authorities? We haven't seen any of them on tv.

WHO IS FOOLING WHO? I need objective answers pls, its time all Nigerians start asking questions than drawing to conclusions

Saturday 5 April 2014

MISS GLAMOUR 2014

Hello everyone...please vote for this beau (MISS LAGOS) by clicking on d like botton for MISS GLAMOUR 2014...thanks in advance..pls re-bc

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Tell your friends to tell their friends....

THINGS GIRLS SHLDN'T DO

Don't wear a vest or sleeveless top  without shaving your armpits or without a bra underneath.

Don't leave cheap nail polish to wear off on its own, there's a reason why they sell nail polish remover.

If you can't afford Brazilian, India and Malaysia hair, don't bother we understand.

Don't do artificial nails that makes you look like a Chinese dragon queen, Being simple is always sexy.

See through leggings or a see through top used as a dress when you are out in public is a Hell-to-the-no, Some dude might think you are selling!

Never do things for a man with a hope of getting something in return, expectations are dangerous so do it simply bcos you want to.

Never oppose or contradict your man in public.

Never stalk the man that dumped you for another girl.

Don't act on distress while in a relationship, Whatever you looking for on his phone and Facebook you will definitely find it.

Don't nag him to death and continuously acting like a paranoid freak will push him to someone else.

Stop obsessing over your body, You are fine and some other girl is finer so leave it at that.

Over accessorizing yourself makes you look like a Christmas tree but your friends won't tell you.

Never leave home without your dignity.

Never leave your used sanitary pad where someone else will see it...Bitch Please!

Never wear high heels if you can't do the Naomi Campbell walk, You will end up walking like a drunk grasshopper.

Finally,never wish to be like the other woman bcos there are others envying you for who you are...

MY LITTLE ADVICE....

Thursday 3 April 2014

TBOY'S FIRST SINGLE

Tochukwu Ezeji popular known as TBOY is an upcoming artiste who recently got signed to YOUNG ACHIEVAS ENTERTAINMENT which is a Label that operates under the popular Achievas Entertainment known for the likes of the 'oluchi crooner' Solidstar & cameroonian superstar Xcellente.

This young vibrant artiste has come forth with his highly anticipated first official single titled LOOSE CONTROL which features fast rising producer/singer SELEBOBO who also produced the song.
Listen to the audio for loose control, download, enjoy & share.

we say good luck to TBOY & kudos to his label.

Click on the link below to download

http://wp.me/p3sOBS-NZ

See photos after cut...

Wednesday 26 March 2014

SELFIE!!!!

Meet arewa_oyinkansola.....a pretty and charming princess....LOL....Oh WELL,so far my break has been eventful....

see photos after cut ......

NEVER GIVE UP ON LIFE

If you feel like you’re at the end the road with nowhere to go, realize you are lying to yourself.  You have imprisoned yourself in your own mind by telling self-defeating stories.

Stories about what your life should be like, what you should have already accomplished, and so forth.  By doing this you’ve created a tiny space in your mind and you’ve begun to believe you are actually living in it.

But you are NOT.  You are alive in a vast world with infinite destinations.  Take a moment to remind yourself of this.  Go outside.  Look at the sky and the clouds.  THIS is the space in which you really live.  Breathe it in.  Then look at your current situation again.

Here are some things you need to consider before you give up:

You never fail until you’re satisfied with failure.

– Failure is not falling down; failure is staying down when you have the choice to get back up.  Sometimes you have to fail a thousand times to succeed.  Which means you haven’t really failed yet; you’ve just found a bunch of ways that don’t work.  So don’t get so hung up on a few failed attempts that you miss every new opportunity coming your way.  All of your ideas that don’t work are simply stepping stones on your way to the one idea that does.

What you have learned is what’s important. Life always offers you a second chance – it’s called tomorrow.  But this second chance doesn’t mean anything if you haven’t learned from the events of today.  You have to acknowledge your troubles but gather strength from them, and laugh at your mistakes but learn from them. 

Getting a second chance in life is about giving yourself the opportunity to grow beyond your past failures.  It’s about learning as you go and positively adjusting your attitude and efforts toward future possibilities.

Tough times are just part of life’s natural balance. – Life lives, life dies.  Life laughs, life cries.  Life gives up and life tries.  And life looks different through everyone’s eyes.  In fact, who you were, who you are, and who you will become are three completely different people.  And as you gradually grow beyond the person you were yesterday, keep life’s challenges in perspective.  Hear life’s harmony, and notice the delicate balance.  Realize that life is like playing a grand piano.  The white keys create your happiness and the black keys denote your troubles.  But as you go through life’s journey, remember that the black keys also create music.

Pain helps you grow. – Sometimes things must change so you can change.  Sometimes you must break a little so you can get a peek inside to see what an awesome powerhouse you are.  Sometimes mistakes must be made so wisdom can be earned.  Sometimes you must overcome heartache so you can begin to follow your heart again.

Success is a way of living. – Don’t let your struggles become your identity.  Not everything in your life will go as you expect it to.  This is why you need to drop expectations, live in the present, and go with the flow, rather than against it.  Remind yourself that it’s perfectly okay not to be perfect.  Ultimately, success is not something you achieve, it is what you learn and how you grow as you deal with the realities of life.

You can choose differently.In many cases, the only thing in life you have control over is your perspective.  No matter what happens, YOU control what the meaning is, and what to do with the meaning you give to the circumstance.  Choose to react in a way that motivates happiness, love, or forgiveness, even when circumstances make that choice difficult.

It’s not supposed to be easy. – Just because you’re not where you want to be today doesn’t mean you won’t be there someday.  Again, success is tied to long-term determination.  Successful people keep moving and trying.  They make mistakes, but they do not quit...

STAY POSITIVE!!

Tuesday 25 March 2014

KNOW YOUR TEMPERAMENT TODAY

There are four fundamental personality types,sanguine (pleasure-seeking and sociable), choleric(ambitious and leader-like), melancholic (analytical and literal), and phlegmatic (relaxed and thoughtful)

Sanguine

The sanguine temperament is traditionally associated with air. People with this temperament tend to be playful, lively, sociable, carefree, talkative, and pleasure-seeking. They may be warm-hearted and optimistic. They can make new friends easily, be imaginative and artistic, and often have many ideas.They can be flighty and changeable; thus sanguine personalities may struggle with following tasks all the way through and be chronically late or forgetful.lol...This describes me....

Choleric

The choleric temperament is traditionally associated with fire. People with this temperament tend to be egocentric and extroverted. They may be excitable, impulsive, and restless, with reserves of aggression, energy, and/or passion, and try to instill that in others.They tend to be task-oriented people and are focused on getting a job done efficiently; their motto is usually "do it now." They can be ambitious, strong-willed and like to be in charge. They can show leadership, are good at planning, and are often practical and solution-oriented.They appreciate receiving respect and esteem for their work.They can be best reached through mutual respect and appropriate challenges that recognize their capacities.

Melancholic

The melancholic temperament is traditionally associated with the element of earth. People with this temperament may appear serious, introverted, cautious or even suspicious. They can become preoccupied with the tragedy and cruelty in the world and are susceptible to depression and moodiness. They may be focused and conscientious. They often prefer to do things themselves, both to meet their own standards and because they are not inherently sociable.

Phlegmatic

The phlegmatic temperament is traditionally associated with water. People with this temperament may be inward and private, thoughtful, reasonable, calm, patient, caring, and tolerant. They tend to have a rich inner life, seek a quiet, peaceful atmosphere, and be content with themselves. They tend to be steadfast, consistent in their habits, and thus steady and faithful friends.Their speech tends to be slow or appear hesitant.

Saturday 22 March 2014

TIPS TO A LASTING RELATIONSHIP

1.Begin by simply being friends with the person you are seeking a relationship with.This stage is vital as it allows you to learn more about your partner, as well as confirm/deny your feelings towards a relationship with them.

2.Tell each other everything. If there's something you don't like about them, tell them how you feel. The relationship isn't going to work unless you settle your differences.

3.Never cheat. Cheating has ruined many relationships. Being with someone else will make your partner wonder why someone else was better then them. If you are seriously considering cheating, you should consider ending the relationship so your partner won't get hurt.

4.Be spontaneous. Surprise your partner with tickets to a game or movie. When it's nice and sunny outside, a picnic would be very romantic, or a walk by the lake. Even just the simple flowers on a doorstep with a cute note would work.

5.Spend time with each other. You don't want to miss each other too much. But then you don't want to spend so much time with each other to the point they are sitting in the bathroom with you.

6.Tell your loved one how much you love them. If you don't do this often, they're going to feel neglected and like you don't care any more.

7.Make the commitment. Put your time and money where your commitment is. DEAR NIGERIANS, DONT BE STINGY.Love is not always a warm fuzzy feeling. Often it is a conscious choice.CHOOSE to do for the person that you know will make YOU feel special. Having someone set aside their own wishes to make you feel special is incredibly heartwarming and flattering. Do this for your mate and watch the relationship blossom.

GOODLUCK!!

RESONS WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL

Failed relationships are one of the biggest causes of stress and unhappiness in life. Working on successful relationships, whether they are with our children, parents, friends or partners, is one of the most important life skills we can learn.

#FACT#If we cannot maintain lasting relationships, we will always struggle to be happy.

This article looks at seven common reasons why once harmonious relationships break down. If we know why relationships are liable to break down we can avoid the pain involved.

                          JEALOUSY

It is ironic that we can easily become jealous of our closest friends. Jealousy often occurs when there is a feeling of separation and competition. We need to learn to be happy at the success of others; it only when we can feel a sense of oneness with others achievements that jealousy will remain far away.

                             TRUST
Also, we need to trust our partner -a suspicious mind is very poisonous. It is better to be trusting rather than always suspecting infidelity or disloyalty. If our partner lets us down, it is not our fault. But, if we suspect, because of our own insecurity, we are bound to create serious problems in our own relationships.

                           ATTACHMENT
There is a big difference between real love and emotional attachment. When we have emotional attachment to someone, we need their attention and presence. When we have excessive attachment to others, we can easily become jealous and demanding. Often attachment occurs out of a sense of insecurity; if this is the case we need to develop self belief and inner confidence, we can’t just rely on other people to provide that. Strong relationships need a certain detachment; we need to be able to accept others for what they are, rather than expecting them to give us all their attention.

                         SELFISHNESS
Selfishness is the root of all relationship problems. When we are selfish we think of ourselves first and foremost. We ignore the needs of others and become ego centric. Ego centric people are never easy to live with;. When we are selfish we want the praise, support and backing of others; but, we are not willing to give anything in return.True love is selfless, it is given without expectation of receiving anything in return. If we love our self the most, we will always struggle with relationships. Take time to listen to others rather than dominating the conversation; be giving rather than being permanently needy.

                            NO TIME
We have to spend time on what we value. If we always work late, it shows where our priorities lie. If we spend no time with our partner then they will begin to feel resentful/unloved. We can always make time for things we really value; make sure your relationships don’t suffer because you have given your life away to your job. Also, make sure you create time when your partner is the focus of attention; do things that they enjoy doing.

                         TOO MUCH TIME
It does depends on the personality of the people involved; but some people, especially introverts, need time to themselves.We need time to ourselves; strong relationships should be able to deal with periods of separation.This allows individual expression and individual growth.

                      PICKING FAULTS
Whoever we spend time with will undoubtedly have faults. Successful relationships require a certain tolerance of others’ weaknesses. If we keep picking up on the faults over people, expecting them to change, we create permanent tension.A strong relationship should be able to cope with constructive criticism and suggestions. However, we need to make sure we don’t become obsessed with noticing bad things.Rather than remembering all the bad things your partner does,make yourself think of some of the good things that they have been doing.Unfortunately, humans often seem attracted to noticing the faults of others, but, it doesn’t help relationships to do this. If you become too critical it will cause long term problems.

Monday 24 February 2014

DEATH-INEVITABLE

Death is an inevitable and unavoidable conclusion to life.We never know when we’ll die, or how, but we know it will happen.

Death can also be an instrument by which we measure the value and worth of our lives. Most importantly, Live a good and peaceful life, stay true to yourself and stay humble.

I lost someone who was very nice to me last night.A very nice,industrious,calm and collected Man and above all GOD-FEARING. He made me believe beauty, stature, body structure isnt LOVE. And That love is way beyond the physical.He loved his wife even in her inperfection.This is a little reminder that around every corner of life is death. It’s a reminder that regardless of how careful we plan our future, we have only a finite amount of time in which to live to our fullest extent. It is also a reminder that death has no boundary.

We react differently to death. Some are so consumed by grief and agony that they nearly succumb themselves. Others take a moment to reflect on life and then let it all pass.

I tend to put my thoughts into words,because my eyes are dry of tears already.It takes a brave person to see the face of death and respond with a one-finger salute. Perhaps because they, too, will one day find themselves 6-feet-under-the-ground. Stay humble....

R.I.P MR WALE ODEGBILE.

Thursday 20 February 2014

FLAVOURS NEW ADANMA

Hmmmm...Can this really be true?? can flavour's new asanwa really be the Namibian princess 'Dillish Matthews...

He featured the Namibian princess in his new single tittled 'IKWOKRIKWO' he just released few weeks back.

Recently, they had a date which he posted a pic on instagram saying'ME AND MAMA''HAPPINESS!!!

This got me thinking tho!!

The 2013 BBA winner just ended her relationship with her long time boyfriend stephen which I learnt they splitted in good fate.

Awnnnnn...she prefers 6 parked flavour to the chubby Stephen.... How sad!!!!

The pictures after cut.....

Wednesday 19 February 2014

TOASTING A UNILAG GIRL

L.M.A.O....This post just craked me up big time!!I couldn't but post this....The guy is obviously broke. ..No girl wants to settle for less BIKO...

Tuesday 18 February 2014

HAPPY BIRTHDAY OLUWAKEMI

This special birthday shout out goes to OLUWAKEMI..Have a fabulous one girl

Y'all should follow her on instagram @aquariuspisces19 ...#ohhhbhadgan

REASONS WHY GIRLS PREFER OLDER MEN

1.We know how much girls like money.For a girl to prefer an older man,Means he is financially stable. Apart from that,there are all the chances that he is emotionally stable too. Such men offer a natural sense of security to women. They feel more care free financially, physically and emotionally when they are with such men.

 2. They Understand women better With the experience and wisdom that comes with age: They are known to be more understanding and sensitive towards the emotional needs of a woman, which obviously women find very attractive.LOL!While the 'not-so-matured' and younger men are still busy gaining their share of experience.

 3. It's Fun to talk to Older men: Very rarely do they brag and are mostly interested in enjoying a conversation rather than showing off. Moreover, they like to talkabout various  things other than mere mushy stuff. Therefore, many women are of the opinion that such men are a better choice than their younger counterparts. 

4. Feeling at peace: It is also a well-known fact that most women tend to panic and get upset quickly. This is when they need a firm, supportive and understanding partner by their side. It might sound silly but women find older men more “grown up” emotionally and with their thoughts about the relationship. So, even if the woman gets upsets or panics in some situations, the man can provide them much required stability and calmness.

5. Older men are Less likely to cheat: While younger men are busy looking for flings and some fun time, the older ones (at least most ofthem!) seek just one thing- a stable, committed relationship. This is something that attract women.

Tuesday 4 February 2014

PHINO IMPREGNATES RITA EDMOND

The whole media was awash with the story that rapper Phyno got singer Rita Edmond pregnant and she wants to abort it but he is begging her to keep it. How true is dat???

The report also claims he sent her on a holiday to Dubai. Both parties were contacted by Punch. While Phyno totally denied, she said she is dating a rapper but didn’t call names…looks like she circulated the story then..

Phyno said… “Believe it or not, I’ve never met or spoken to anyone by that name. I haven’t made any woman pregnant either. If people need three seconds of fame I’m glad that my name could help,”Meanwhile, when Rita was contacted for her reaction, she was evasive. After much persuasion, she decided to open up. But she ended up saying, “The only information I can give you is that I am in love with a rap artiste. I don’t want to mention his name. Since different stories are flying around, I am trying to understand where everybody got their story from.WAHALA DEYYY!!!

But wait ooo....can you all spot the blunder in rita Edmond's outfit...eishhhhhhhhhh...omo igbo kparaku..LOL

YORUBA

Yoruba is a single largest nationality in West Africa sub-region. Primarily, Yoruba people are found in the South western part of Nigeria in: Lagos, Ọyọ,Ogun, Ọsun, Ondo, Ekiti, and Kwara states. Yoruba people account for one-third of Kogi state population, several thousand of Yoruba by descent live in the western part of Edo state (Akoko Edo) and the Itsekiris of Delta State originated from Yoruba land, possibly  from Ijebu.

Interestingly, some other  groups outside the Western Region have some Yoruba connections, possibly, their present abodes might have been the second, or one of the several settlements, outside Yoruba enclave. Yoruba territory covers a wide range of geographical and ecological zones, these include, but are not limited to: savannah, mangrove rain-forest, and the coastal belt of Atlantic Ocean.  

There are Yoruba people in Benin Republic, Togo, Ghana, Cote d’Ivorie , millions  by descent in the  Caribbean Island  and South America, who do not speak Yoruba, but have cultural affinity with the Yoruba of Nigeria.

Yorubas are found in their ancestral home, Nigeria, neighboring West African  countries, and Yorubas are descent around the globe.Yoruba belongs to Niger-Congo language category-one of the major language families in Africa and the largest in terms of geographical spread, number of speakers, and number of distinct languages. In fact, Niger-Congo language family is one of the major language categorizations around the globe; A method use by Linguists to categorize noun by referent such as sex: male or female; animate: people, animals, plants, objects, and places; gender: masculine and feminine.

Yoruba as a people, are descendants of legendary Oduduwa, the first king of Ile-Ifẹ. Myths and history have different versions of Oduduwa history. The mythologists believed that Olodunmare created Oduduwa, placed him in Ile-Ifẹ, after five-legged-hen had spread sand on marshy and watery land for habitation. But to historians, Oduduwa migrated from the East probably from Arabia peninsula (Mecca to be precise)

During jihadist movement, traveled thousands of miles west ward through Sudan settled at different places,and settled at Ile-Ifẹ.

Whatever is the story, the fact remains- O’dua lived at Ile-Ifẹ, became father to seven sons or more and  daughters, these individuals at different times  extended the frontiers Ifẹ to north,  south, east and west.

By 18th century Ọyọ Kingdom established by one of O’dua sons, Oranmiyan, had become the most powerful and most successful empire in the savannah and rain forest region. Ọyọ empire covered over 400 miles, extended to Dahomey (Benin Republic) covered the entire Yoruba land. And within this geo-political confine, other smaller kingdoms like Owu, Ketu, Popo, and Ifẹ existed side-by-side with Ọyọ.

HAVE A PERFECT BREAK UP BEFORE VALENTINE

Valentines day will soon be around the corner and many Nigerian couples are busy thinking up new ways to show their loved ones how they really feel.

But this article is not for them, this article is for those naughty ones who want to avoid the stress and commitment that comes with being in love.

1. Do an internal evaluation. Really spend sometime to meditate and see if your feelings to resolve the relationship are due to something temporary,such as: a petty disagreement, a misunderstanding,a miscommunication, jealousy, etc,or if it is a deal-breaker. Also, find out if you are at your best in this relationship, or if this relationship is your downfall.LOL

You should feel good being around your "boo.'" You should feel comfortable and safe.So, take some time to see if this is what you reallywant to do. If it is!

2. Keep it on the "DL." If you have to consult your bff or your mom, do so, but make sure they keep your plans private. It's bad enough that Valentine'sDay is coming up, then to make matters worse, thegossip has circulated and he/she finds out beforeyou have the time to talk. If everybody has been in your business in the past, do your best to keep thisbusiness to yourself until you have sealed the deal.Be mature!

3. Talk face to face. There is nothing worse than finding a "Dear John" letter in an email or on a text.Just because you are breaking up doesn't mean you can't be classy or decent. Find a location that is neutral and isn't crowded--a place that will provideyou with some intimate heart-to-heart conversation with this sensitive matter.

4. Let it go. When you break-up, let it go. Do not insist on being "friends" with the person you arebreaking up with. If you see your ex on a date, you cannot get mad and confront him/her. Your ex has a right to start a new life since you broke it off, and you have to realize that friendship might complicate things even more. It is also best to end amicably, ifyou can. If you can't then you should never result to defamation or insulting your exes' character. And last but not least…

5. Understand what you need. Before you get into another relationship, understand what you need and know where you are trying to go with your life. It doesn't make sense to get into a rebound relationship only to find out that you are not readyfor another commitment.

Be Wise!!!!

THIs is hilarious

There was this couple who had been married for 20 years. Every time they made love,the husband always insisted on shutting off the light.

Oh Well, after 20 years the wife felt this was ridiculous. She figured she would break him out of this crazy habit.So one night, while they were in the middle of a wild, screaming, romantic session, she turned on the lights.She looked down... and saw her husband was holding a battery-operated pleasure device... a vibrator!Soft, wonderful and larger than a real one.She said."You impotent bastard," She screamed at him, "how could you be lying to me all of these years? You better explain yourself!"The husband looks her straight in the eyes and says calmly:"I'll explain the toy...... you explain the kids.

"hilarious right???

THERE'S NO HARM IN TRYING

Nigerian actor and a model, Uti Nwachukwu (born August 3, 1982) was the winner ofBig Brother Africa 5.

Uti Nwachukwu, has said that his latest incursion into the Nigerian music scene is in fulfillment of his passion for his first love, rather than the quest for money.The winner of the Big Brother Africa reality show was a guest on Rubbin’ Minds on Channels Television on Sunday, where he spoke about some of his recent activities.

The man, who started his career as a model before hitting fame on the pan-African reality show has since delved into other areas of theentertainment business, after riding on his claim to fame to make a great career as a TV show host.He also enjoyed good reviews from his performances in a number of Nollywood movies.

In 2013, he released a single, launching his career as a recording artiste to the surprise of many Nigerians.Although he refused to rate himself as a musician, Uti noted that he grew up with his multiple talents, and has enjoyed the new experience because of the reaction it drew from many fans, as they were mostly suprised that he could sing.

The latest single was not his first attempt at singing and he admitted that much, adding that the previous two singles were not serious attempts; moreover, he had never been famous for his first attempts, as he reminded Ebuka that it also took him three attempts to win Big Brother Africa.

Ho ho ho

Hey everyone...I'm sure you all have been thinking I gave up on the blog; nahhh, I've just been indisposed and now I am back and better...yipeeee!!!

I came up with an idea of displaying my photo for the week on every first day of the week.so I need you all to join me on this.

Send a picture of you and a little profile about you to zzazzi2409@gmail.com...will be patiently waiting so let the fun begin..peace out.

See photos *wink*wink

Thursday 23 January 2014

ROSES AND THORNS

Life is beautiful but not always easy, it has problems, too, and the challenge lies in facing them with courage.

No doubt, life is beautiful and every moment is a celebration of being alive, but one should be always ready to face challenges. A person who has not encountered difficulties in life can never achieve success.

Difficulties test the courage, patience and true character of a human being.hardships makes a person strong and ready to face the challenges of life. There is no doubt that there can be no gain without pain.It is only when one toils and sweats it out that success is refreshed and sustained.

life is and should not be just a bed of roses; thorns are also a part of it and should be accepted by us just as we accept the beautiful side of life.

Those, who have the impression that life is a bed of roses  become victims of depression and frustration. One who faces difficulties with courage and accepts success without letting it go to its head is the one who experience real happiness, contentment and peace in life.

Those, who think, that good times last forever, easily succumb to pressure during difficulties. They do not put in required hard work and efforts because they break down easily.

An  example is a student who studies hard, burns down candle sticks, get bitten by mosquitoes all for success.And of cause a successful executive has to face the ups and downs of life, not forgetting that life is a mixture of success and failure, joy and sorrow.

If he loses hope during difficult times, he would not achieve sucess

In conclusion, life is beautiful just as roses but it has challenges which are like thorns and have to be faced and overcome by everyone.Those, who accept these, challenges and succeed, are the ones, who know how to live life in its true sense.Thus, enjoy life but also be prepared to bear the pricks of pain.

CHOOSE WISELY

Friendship is one of the most precious gifts of life.It makes life sweet..It can lead us to success or to failure. It all depends on how we choose our friends

Friendship is both good and necessary.it is only the people of the same age, character and background, mentality that can understand each other's problems.

They are needed to turn to when one is in trouble, and facing difficulties.Friends are needed at every stage of ones life.

We all need to select our friends very carefully and remember that statement “All that glitters is not gold”. In the same manner,some friends remain in disguise of good friends and lead us to the wrong path, while some mean well.

We spend much of our time with them.   Their behaviour and attitudes affect us too. Therefore, we have to choose our friends very carefully. We have to differenciate between friends and non-friends. True friends remain with us through thick and thin while non-friends are found only during sunny days.

Lasting friendship is indeed a blessing, it can make or break us.reasons why one has to be careful.also,It can lead to good careers and proper living. It does not matter how often you meet your friends, but how much you care and feel for one another in good times as well as in bad times.

MY JEWEL

Who I am today , and who I will be tomorrow will be formed not by myself but by the people that surround me.possibly my friends and family, my biggest influence is my mum. As a child, she taught me practically everything from feeding to clothing myself; judging situations and reacting, being polite and being respectful to adults.without you mum, I know I would be lost
She is my personal miracle, that one woman who calms me down with her soft words when i am in my most furious mood.
My mum is a wonderful influence, she loves me so much that I sometimes resent her for not letting me make my own stupid decisions.i know almost every girl does and then end up feeling guilty afterwards but not know how to apologise afterwards.LOL!she is my jewel! My Mother
I LOVE YOU MUM